A FREE 3-Day Nervous System Reset for Women Who Muscle Through Everything

Get yourself back without burning it all down

→ without a new morning routine or one more habit to maintain

→ even if it feels like your life can't slow down right now

→ in just one session, with a practice you can do anywhere

Live Sept 10, 15 & 17 at 12pm ET

Replays available through the weekend

Free. Live on Zoom. Come as you are, camera optional.

You're exhausted in a way sleep doesn't fix.

You've tried the early nights. THe weekend with nothing on the calendar.

And none of it touched the exhaustion.

You're short on sleep, sure. But mostly you're short on breathing room.

You probably wouldn't even call it tired. Corseted, maybe. A choke in the throat. Like you can't quite get a full breath in your own life.

When there's more asked of you than there is of you to give, you speed up. Of course you do. It's worked your whole life, and it has saved you more times than you can count.

But speed borrows. It takes from tomorrow to get through today. So you wake with a little less space than you had, and less space means pushing harder to keep up.

That's urgency. Not the deadline kind. The kind that lives in your body and doesn't switch off when the day does.

Rest can't reach that. The squeeze isn't in your calendar. It's in your body.

And it isn't only sleep you've tried.

You've read the books. You've been in therapy, maybe for years. You journal, you walk, you go to yoga, and yoga does work. You come off the mat feeling like yourself again, but by dinner your shoulders are up around your ears and you're short with someone you love.

All of it helped. None of it held.

Nothing was wrong with any of it, and nothing is wrong with you. You were offering it all to a body with no space to receive it.

Spaciousness is a skill.

Not a temperament, and not a reward for finishing everything. It's a skill your body can remember, inside the life you already have.

That's where we start.

SO HOW DO YOU BUILD SPACE INTO A LIFE THAT DOESN'T HAVE ANY?

The next time your chest goes tight at 6pm, you'll know what to do.

You'll catch it before the fallout

Right now you find out afterward. The tone you used. The thing you said in the kitchen. You'll get a map that names what your body is doing while it's doing it, so you catch it while it's happening instead of an hour later.

You'll stop paying for every yes

Say yes and quietly resent it, or say no and spend the evening managing how it landed. Both cost you. There's usually a third answer that doesn't cost you, and it appears the moment your body settles enough to see it.

You'll ask without the blame

The laundry argument that isn't about laundry. You'll be able to say what you actually need instead of keeping score. And when it does come out sideways, you'll have a way back that doesn't take three days.

THIS 3-DAY NERVOUS SYSTEM RESET IS ABOUT MORE THAN SLOWING DOWN.

We’re reclaiming the space between chaos and control—the sacred third where your choices and wildness live.

When urgency runs the show, life goes binary. Do it all, or shut it all down.

But pause long enough to notice, feel, and choose, and a third way shows up. One you couldn’t see a minute ago.

With nervous system tools in your back pocket, that pause becomes:

  • Coming back to yourself in the middle of an ordinary Tuesday, not on a retreat six months from now.

  • Hearing what you actually want, and saying it out loud.

  • Being as wild as you actually are, without apologizing for it.

  • Staying with yourself in the hard moments, instead of checking out or powering through.

  • Moving through your day at a pace that's actually yours, instead of one you inherited.

  • Showing up with the people you love as yourself, not as the version who keeps everyone comfortable.

This is where liberation lives:

You don't have to become someone else. You just need enough space to be who you already are.

Because urgency has never once given you a good answer. A settled body will.

“The subtlety with which Sarah holds the energy in the group is profound. She led us to the edge of discomfort while helping us to feel safe, which is the place where all the magic happens. Her soulful presence and depth of wisdom are an alchemical combo.”

KATE NORTHRUP

Two Time Bestselling Author and CEO of The Origin Company

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What to expect each day

Day 01: Reclaim Time and Agency

By the end of day 01, you'll be able to name what's happening in your body while it's happening.

Most of us are stuck in a loop we didn’t choose.

Urgency is not your fault. It’s in the water we swim in. .

But there's another way. And your nervous system already holds the map.

On Day 01, I'll give you the Nervous System Map, the tool that shows you which state you're in — fight, flight, freeze, or fawn — and what that state actually needs.

  • You'll know why you snap at 6pm and go numb by 9.

  • You'll see people pleasing for what it is, a survival state your body learned, not a personality trait.

  • You'll leave with one practice for the moment you feel it starting.

Because once you can name what's happening, you stop being at its mercy. And aliveness stops being a reward for doing more. It becomes your baseline.

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Day 02: The Sacred Third

There is always another way. But you have to slow down enough to see it.

By the end of day 02, you'll see a way through something you've been stuck in for months.

When urgency runs the show, we default to either/or thinking.

You know the one. The situation you've turned over a hundred times and still can't find a good answer to.

Say the thing and blow it up, or keep swallowing it. Two roads, both costly, and neither is what you actually want.

That's not indecision. An activated body genuinely can't see the third road. Physiology, not willpower.

On Day 2 I'll show you how to get settled enough for it to appear:

  • An option you couldn't see before.

  • A truth you can speak and still stay connected.

  • A small step that shifts everything.

That's the sacred third. And it's waiting for you.

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Day 3: Relational Health

The nervous system heals in connection, when we're safe enough to stay in the room.

By the end of day 03, you'll know how to say a hard thing without losing the person or losing yourself.

We’re not meant to regulate alone.

So many of us were taught to either disappear in relationships, or dominate them.

To please. To perform. To walk on eggshells. To armor up.

And it's not your fault. Your body was trying to keep you safe.

On Day 3 we take it into the room with other people:

  • How to ask for what you need without it landing as blame.

  • How to stay in the discomfort that comes right before the relief, the exact moment most people give up and go back to the old way.

  • What to do when it comes out sideways anyway. The repair that takes minutes instead of days.

Because when you can stay with yourself inside connection, you stop abandoning yourself to belong.

Speak your truth, stay in connection, and repair without abandoning yourself.

Here's what each day looks like:

Come to what you can.

Replays run through Sunday. Watch ten minutes or the whole thing. You can't fall behind.

A live session with me, 75 to 90 minutes.

Teaching, one guided practice we do together, and time for questions. Camera on or off.

A workbook, yours to keep.

Not homework. Somewhere to find the practices again later.

A place to see you're not the only one.

A community space with me and my trained team, for questions between sessions and for the moment you realize a lot of other women are feeling exactly this. On Facebook.

All of it free.

If you’ve been craving a way forward that honors your pace, your truth, and your nervous system—This is for you.

FAQs

This workshop is completely free.

No catch.
Just presence, tools, and permission to exhale.

We know your time is sacred. That’s why we’re packing this experience with substance—not fluff.

If you attend even one session and don’t feel more grounded, clear, and alive, then it simply wasn’t your medicine. But we believe it will be.

Live Bonus: Nervous System Integration Guide

Attend any session and receive a printable integration PDF with nervous system regulation tools, prompts, and practices for ongoing use.

Replay Weekend Access

Can’t make it live? Replays available through Sunday night so you don’t miss a beat.

 “What surprised me most was how quickly I began listening to my body again—really listening. Instead of reacting from my mind or outside noise, I found myself returning to my own somatic intelligence. And that felt like home.”

Joy Burch
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“The dimensions Sarah invites us to explore are unlike anything I’ve ever witnessed.”

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Business Coach, MasterMind Guide

Meet Sarah

Sarah Tacy is a trauma-informed somatic coach, nervous system educator, and multi-modality healer who has worked with past Olympians, CEOs, high-performing teams, mothers, creatives, and leaders to reclaim their vitality, deepen their intuition, and build lives rooted in resonance—not reactivity. She’s known for weaving science, spirit, and deep humanity into nervous system repair work that helps women reclaim clarity, capacity, and embodied wholeness.

She lives in Maine with her family, her gardens, and a heart full of reverence for the seasons and cycles that shape us all.

A 3-Day Nervous System Workshop

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Live Sept 10, 15 & 17 at 12pm ET

Live on Zoom | Replays available

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A body-based path to clarity, presence & peace